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Dear Melanie & Friends,
I have a sister and I really love her so much. We share rooms inside an apartment. We made this very critical decision since our folks died. We chose to be together than being in a foster home until someone wants to raise each of us. Today, we are struggling through many different problems such as financial and emotional. What do you think we should do? Do you think going to the foster be the solution to our problems?
Dear Sisters In Tact,
As you had said, you are encountering great problems today, but for my advise, I think if you really love each other so much, you must do your very best in order to survive without being away from each other. You must cooperate for both of your sake. But if you think that you both had tried your best but still nothing's changing, it's time for you to go to the foster home. I know it can be very hard for both of you because you shared so much together and you really love each other, but if you really want the best of both of you you must give up the bondage that you had. You must think of what good oppurtunities that you can have with your new parents. And if you like you can still be in touched by calling or exchanging letters with each other. "Departing ways doesn't actually means that you will not hear anything from each other anymore or ever see again, it's just a matter of thinking of what's the future ahead of us
Dear Sisters In Tact,
Decision making can be really critical, but of course, in order to know the the best idea among, is to have a very deep thinking of both sides. You can do this by the process of "pro's and con's" which is by listing what will happen if you go to a certain decision. For your situation, this is an example: PRO's if you will continue being in the same apartment you will have: still many problems to solve, a close sister, large debts, hard work, aching muscles and head & unknown(possible negative) future. CON's if you will go to the foster home and somebody adopt you, you will have: far away sister, better life, education, love from your new folks, steady life, good future & a new home But the decision is still in your hands, you can go to a good home but without your sister with you. You can stay in your apartment with your sister but with large problems. So, which will you choose?
Dear Sisters In Tact,
It's pretty obvious what you should choose, to go to a foster home. You must not just think of your self but for your sister's too. The only thing that keeps you clinging of being with your sister is your love to her and I know that you are very much afraid alone. But I think the best thing that you should do is to let her go. Think of the future ahead of her and also yours. You must give up the moments that you can be together for her. It's the best thing that you can give her, your approval.
Dear Melanie & Friends,
I have this really bad stepmother. She keeps saying to me to "do this and that" sometimes I feel that I am her servant. Though my dad is at home, he doesn't do anything about it. Maybe he just loves my stepmom so much. Sometimes I just feel ending my worthless life. Tell me what should I do?
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